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Becky Wallace is the debut author of The Storyspinner, which came out yesterday! All the squealing! Don't forget to leave her a nice message because a) her book sounds awesome and b) this post really touched my heart. As a teenager surrounded by labels, I really related to this post and I'm so glad she write it.
I was also very much not that girl. While my friends went out after football games and partied, I was working on my AP History project on a hand-me-down computer. I was science student of the quarter. I was the girl you came to if you missed chemistry and needed notes, but not the one you asked over to your house to watch a movie.
On the surface, I was every cheerleader stereotype—bubbly, loud, ditzy, with too many boyfriends. Underneath, I was uncomfortable in my own skin; unsure which me I was supposed to be…which me I wanted to be. And worst of all, which version was going to get me somewhere else. Not because where I grew up was bad (a little rough, but full of good people), but because I didn’t feel like Spastic Becky and Nerdy Becky could occupy the same space.
I was wrong.
It took me a long time to learn that all people are more than the sum of their labels. Everyone has backstory. Everyone has a reason for putting on the façade they show in public.
It’s also the most important lesson I learned as a writer. Characters who look like one thing on the surface (a pretty, talented Performer girl) are so much more interesting when they’re really something else (a fiercely protective older sister who will do anything for her family). When characters have depth, when they’re relatable, readers find something that will propel them through the story.
And if you can find commonality with a fictional character, I hope you’ll look for it in the panhandler, the soldier, and the scary dude with the neck tattoo.
We’re all so much more than we seem.
Wow. When I read it, I found it so inspiring and wonderful. Guys, this is what the event is all about. Becky, you just made me <3 you more which I thought was impossible! *claps*
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Wow is right! What a fantastic guest post. I agree that we're so much more than we seem. :)
ReplyDeleteWhat makes me procrastinate? Hmm...the feeling that I need to avoid tough things is one of them. Boredom is another. Thank you so much for the giveaway! I've been recommended The Storyspinner quite a few times.
I procrastinate by being on Twitter constantly. Thanks so much for this great giveaway.
ReplyDeleteThanks for having me, Nova! Lots of love to you book bloggers who sacrifice your time simply because you love reading! ♡♡♡
ReplyDeleteGreat post! We totally relate to Becky's observations about identity. That was very much our experience as teens too! Thanks to both of you for sharing this. :)
ReplyDeleteThis post really spoke to me because I feel like I don't fit in a label either. I love both reading and writing, but I also love math and science just as much, which is something that I don't often seen in other book lovers and writers. I'm the type of girl that overstudies for everything, and is in a bunch of nerdy STEM clubs, but I'm also the girl that runs cross country competitively and just got her varsity jacket (!). And then I blog, which is weird (but fun) in and of itself. I don't fit into just one label, and I think that's important for me to remember as I write.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh I love this so much! Thank you Becky and Nova :) I empathize, I feel the same way. I'm the girl that people come to when they need notes or help. I'm bubbly and outgoing sometimes, yet I can't help but just feel fake sometimes. We do all have facades and backstories, reasons for being and doing what we do. Well said, hun <33
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Becky!
ReplyDeleteI was in the goth/stoner group in high school. It was weird because they're usually thought of as degenerates, but while we may have been a bit rebellious we were all in clubs and AP classes lol.
ReplyDeleteAmazing post! I truly enjoyed reading it! As for what kind of person I am, I have no clue. Or scratch that in school I was seen as a shy book nerd which I liked though as to how I really am well I believe I'm just a book obssessed girl with a chocolate addiction. So, I guess I am a book nerd. Lol ;)
ReplyDeleteWow, thank you SO much for that post, Becky and Nova! It is really sad, but true, how easy it is to end up being labeled as some stereotype or another. And really, this is such a great lesson for everyone, no matter the stage of life, because sadly, this stuff doesn't really go away when high school ends (in fact, this post really touched me because of a lot of stuff I went through in college, not high school, go figure!) and it is always important to take a step back and really try to see the person underneath the mask. Brilliant post, Becky! Thank you so much for sharing it with us, Nova!
ReplyDeleteNow, I am going to answer your question as best as I can. I have NO IDEA who I am. This is a scary reality for me, and one that I have been struggling with for as long as I can remember. I mean, I know that I try to be a good person, and I try to be kind, and try to love and be happy. I know that I love to read, and write, and swim, and travel. Beyond all of that... I don't know. I know I am scared of taking steps to make myself happy, I know I am indecisive, and I haven't a clue what I want to do with my life. It's so scary, but maybe being honest and personal is a kind of first step?
Don't even sweat it. Some people spend their entire lives trying to figure out who they are only to realize that the answer was always in front of them. I don't think we should be defined as labels. Whenever someone asks me who I am, I tell them I'm the sassiest 'girl' [I don't actually say the word girl] they'll ever meet. And then they give me that look and then I tell them my name :P [All the sass!]
DeleteEveryone has a really distinct personality, as much as they may or may not see it. I think you've told me a lot about yourself in that little paragraph already! And at least you care about your life. I don't have any aspirations right now. I'm just hell bent on ignoring responsibility as long as I can which as its own side effects.
My answer? I'm still trying to figure out who I am! I hated the labels in high school and how they were so constricting and limiting and pretty much all superficial. College has given me a chance to be more open and to just be... MORE. The labels are gone, and you have this chance to really figure out your identity and who you want to be. But I am STILL learning about myself and trying to figure out who I am. That hasn't gone away (which is actually kinda scary, but I think many people are always reinventing themselves, no matter their age).
ReplyDeleteThis was an amazing post. Thank you Becky, for writing it, and Nova, for sharing it! :)
I'm just someone who wants to enjoy life but also learn from my mistakes. Great post and thanks Becky for the giveaway! I've heard nothing but high praise for this book!
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